questions

why do people change when they get into a relationship?

do they change for their own good? or because their partner want to?
based on my experience and my observations to other people.they would really change and forget their old self. they will try to complement to what their partner want them to be. why do they have to change? for in the first place, they were attracted and had loved the person you used to be. the real you...

and in the midst of the seemed-to-be-a-perfect-relationship you both dreamed of. enjoying each other's company..feeling the sweet aroma of love. you'll eventually forget the person you used to be as well as the people who loved you from the very beginning. who knew the real you. and what's worse? you'll ignore their concern and try to believe that "love will conquer all".

but when the heaven and earth would clashed. everything between you and your partner was over. you'll end up to those people you had left behind. those are the TRUE FRIENDS. you'll be depressed. and trying to recover. but the difficult thing is. you don't know how to because you don't know the whole you. you were totally different. you'll try to go back to your old self but then memories woulod hunt you and you'll regret everything.

it's a cliche story i know but then everything was so true.

admit it.. ayt? :-)